This is also known as the GIRL ON TOP position……. winkz
The cowgirl sex position can be crazily intimidating! Being on top comes with a whole new set of questions. What do you do with your hands? What do you do when your legs get tired? What do you do about keeping rhythm.People have different reasons as to why they do not indulge the cow girl sex position.
1. it can be a confidence issue.
2. It can be the fact that they like to feel submissive during sex and Cowgirl isn’t a particularly submissive
3.It can be because they just don’t get much pleasure from Cowgirl when compared to other positions.
WHAT SHOULD A MAN DO WHILE A WOMAN IS IN THE COWGIRL POSITION ????
The man doesn’t need to do anything in the Cowgirl position. But to be honest, that’s not what sex is about! While the man is lying on his back, he can simply thrust up and down. Or he can slowly gyrate his hips in a swirling motion to stimulate the wall of your vagina. Or he can try doing both at the same time.
Your man can also put his hands under your bum and help to push you up and down if you are getting tired. He’ll be able to do a little fingering ( anal) too.
WHAT SHOULD A WOMAN DO WHILE IN THE COWGIRL POSITION????
As a Woman in the Cowgirl position, you are the one in control. You can bounce up and down on your man’s penis or instead, you can move your body forwards and backwards to stimulate your clitoris and the rest of the outside of your vagina. Think of it as grinding against his pubic bone. Or you can try doing both at the same time if you are crazily adventrous.
You can also fine tune or change the angle of entry. If you find that you are leaning back a lot, then make sure to use your hands to help steady yourself.
THINGS TO PUT INTO CONSIDERATION WHEN PERFORMING THE COWGIRL SEX POSITION
Below are the important things to consider If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques
1. You don’t have to be particularly flexible to perform the Cowgirl. But if you are leaning backwards a lot, then it’s a good idea to be at least a little flexible.
2. Keep adjusting your position by moving your hips backwards and forwards as well as leaning your entire body either backwards or forwards until you find a position that you enjoy.
3. Most ladies feel too self-conscious when they first perform the Cowgirl. DON’T WORRY. It’s perfectly natural to be a bit nervous the first few times you try it. To help take the pressure off, try doing it with the lights off. Alternatively, some girls find that leaning in on top of their man towards his face helps to take the pressure off.
4. Although the man may not enjoy it that much, a lot of ladies do. They really enjoy ‘grinding’ to stimulate their clitoris in this position while their man is still deep inside them. some have said that they much prefer this to just bouncing up and down on his cock. He can also place his hand in the “Spock” symbol so that two fingers rest on either side of his cock to provide stimulation.
5. Sometimes your man won’t get much out of this position, which isn’t that big of a deal. Your pleasure is just as important! But do remember that sex is about two people or more having a great time.
HOW TO SPICE UP SEXUAL ACTIVITY WHEN IN THE COWGIRL SEX POSITION
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO TAKE OVER ; If you Want to make sex even hotter? Hold your partner’s hands above their head or use cuffs or restraints and tell them not to move. “Taking that control away from him will drive him crazy as you show him how you like to ride,” . Just make sure you talk about it beforehand.
GIVE THEM A WILD SHOW ; Once you’ve mastered the cowgirl,you can spice things up by going into the reverse-cowgirl to put on a wild show. It’s basically the same thing, but you’re facing their feet, not their face. Not only is this a good chance to show off your bangin’ bod, but you’re also free to go wild with your O-face since your back is to them.
TEASE ; You can tease them with a just-the-tip situation, or once you get them close, you can back off and start again. Play around— teasing and anticipation makes everything stronger.
PUT YOUR HANDS TO WORK ; Play with your partner’s hands using yours. Also Have them put their hands on your hips for extra leverage. You can also try leaning back and placing your arms behind you and on your partner’s knees or ankles can help shift your weight when you start getting tired. You can also caress your own breasts or play with your nipples for extra stimulation.
Bonus: It’s also a fun visual aid for your partner.
GRIND UP ON HIM ; move your body like you’re dancing. “Sit up and swivel your hips while you’re atop him. You can use your hands on his hips for balance or place them on either side of him.”…..work it girl
KEEP IT TOTALLY UNPREDICTABLE ; switching up the speed and depth of penetration is really important, so there’s no discernible pattern. “Start with shallow, fast thrusts, and let yourself slowly fully sink onto your partner every fifth thrust. ” if you’re struggling to find a rhythm , you can alternate between bouncing and grinding or varying your speeds for either to suit your comfort and pleasure……… blisss
PLAY WITH YOURSELF ; Once you get your balance, you can use your arms and hands for other things. Nipple play , Clit play . It’s also a great position to introduce a bullet vibrator if you’re looking to try. There are just so many options, and ideas of play to put in.
ANGLE IS EVERYTHING ; The cowgirl sex position doesn’t mean you sit up straight on top of your partner at a 90 degree angle, but rather, you should lean forward slightly (up to a 45 degree angle) for the easiest and most comfortable penetration.
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